Many people in our community are often guarded or uneasy about revealing their sexuality to a physician out of fear of potential discrimination. This is partially due to negative past experiences and mistrust of the medical profession. Some GLBT people often have less access to health insurance, as many workplace policies do not cover unmarried partners, and without routine care, medical problems can go undiagnosed and untreated.

As a result, GLBT people often avoid routine health exams and even delay seeking medical care when health problems occur.

If this fear would stop someone from visiting a medical provider, then I suggest homosexual patients choose to seek treatment exclusively from homosexual physicians. Not only would this eliminate the possibility of discrimination, but would also provide care from a practitioner who better understands the specific health need. Ask your friends, pick up the local GLBT paper and search for openly gay and/or gay-friendly physicians on the web.

Many people find it difficult to talk about their ailments. Some people become nervous in front of their doctor and forget to ask what's on their mind. Many people don't want to bother their doctor with what they think may be minor issues. But the time you have with your doctor is very important. It's the best time to get your questions answered and your concerns addressed. Remember that your doctor wants you to have the best results.

Follow these tips to make the most out of your doctor’s appointment.

Prepare for your doctor's appointment by writing down your questions in advance.

Repeat back what you hear and ask questions.

If there is something you don't understand, be sure to ask your doctor to explain it another way. Although doctors try to explain things as clearly as possible, certain answers can be technical.

Get to know the nurse. They generally are more patient and have a bit more time to spend with you. This is beneficial because most nurses do not use confusing medical jargon.

Remember if you are not able to open up to your medical provider, then they will never be able to help you. You are the expert on your body's symptoms. If you feel your doctor is not listening to you, then it is time to change physicians.